New boyfriend advice, what should i do?

U know u can tell him what u just wrote down here in the last paragraph...just skip the part where u say u like the challenge that he presents and start from I don't wanna change u till the very end....preferrably say those words in person, tenderly while in his arms....that should deliver ur message loud and clear 2 him....then the ball will be in his court and whether 2 accept ur generous offer will be a choice he will have 2 make on his own...just don't push it, men don't like being pushed....men are used 2 being the providers and that position gives them power....thus, when a man is not working, he feels week and feels like his manliness is being threatened...so just let him know that u r there for him whenever he decides he needs ur help....and may be u can try helping him by making him feel that he's still in a position of power....I'm not saying be his slave here...u know what I mean right?